Brittany&Tom

At this time, we are only asking for your RSVP intent. We invite you to RSVP intent online here. When we send out formal invites, we will update that to a new link you can RSVP at, or by mailing in the RSVP card sent with your invitation.

We know that for some of you attending the wedding in London might be really difficult to do, and you might know right away that you won't be able to attend. By RSVPing your intent, we can get a better idea of how many people can attend from near and far.

Please plan to arrive at 3pm to have time to walk to the ceremony space and be seated before the start time.

A 90-minute cocktail hour will take place between the ceremony and reception, where you can enjoy cocktails, mocktails, small bites and hopefully lawn games.

Both our ceremony and reception will be at RHS Gardens Wisley.

We hope the English weather will cooperate, and we will be able to have our ceremony and cocktail hour outside in the beautiful gardens. In the chance of rain, we do have an indoor area the venue will be able to pivot to, so everyone can stay dry on the day. The reception will take place indoors.

We kindly ask that during our ceremony, you keep our wedding "unplugged" and refrain from taking any photos or videos. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special day. We've hired an amazing photographer and videographer, and you don't want to be that person in photos with your phone out! Before and after the ceremony, feel free to take as many pictures as you'd like.

Semi-formal attire: We ask that you wear semi-formal attire, such as a cocktail-length dress or dressy separates for women and a suit and tie for men. Please note that the ceremony will be held outdoors, with the terrain consisting of a combination of grass and well-paved dirt paths.

England's summers are warm during the day and cool at night, so we recommend a light wrap to cover bare shoulders in the evening and sunglasses for the outdoor ceremony. We will provide sunscreen to keep guests comfortable.

By car, it is 1 hour from central London to the gardens. By public transport, it is an hour and 30 minutes from Waterloo Station.

For guests within driving distance of the venue, there is free on-site and overnight parking.

There will be a shuttle from the venue to both hotels we have block bookings for at the end of the event.

We have secured discounts for 20 rooms at the Brooklands Hotel in Surrey and 20 rooms at the Hilton Cobham for both the 19th and 20th of June. Both are about a 10-minute drive from the venue.

If you miss the deadline to reserve a room in our block, reach out to the hotel and mention our wedding anyway; they may be able to accommodate you with our discount in a room outside of our block.

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guest list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation, and no additional guests can be accommodated.